You’re In Charge: Priorizing Self-Care Without Sacrifice with Heather Dumas

We’re here to help you prioritize self-care, and create a sustainable, kick-ass healthy lifestyle by reminding you that You’re In Charge. This is the podcast for all you badass women out there, expertly balancing your career and motherhood. It’s my mission to cut through the nonsense and give you some tough love so that you can take charge of your health and happiness. No fluff, no excuses, just real talk and real solutions for real change. Because you deserve to look and feel like the badass you are.

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4 days ago

Exploring Self-Perception vs. Reality: This episode dives into the often-neglected issue of our external appearance versus our inner identity. I challenge you, my listeners, to reflect on whether you're showing the world your true self or just a persona shaped by external pressures.
Timestamps and Key Points
0:00 - Reflecting on Self-Perception: Exploring the common disconnect between how we present ourselves and who we truly feel we are.
2:10 - Life's Demands Impacting Our True Selves: Examining how the demands of life can distort or suppress our authentic selves.
6:15 - The Significant Impact of Small Changes: Discussing how small, manageable steps can profoundly affect our ability to align our outward behavior with our internal identity.
12:20 - Practical Steps Toward Authentic Self-Expression: Sharing actionable advice on simple actions you can start today to help realign your external appearance with your inner self.
18:45 - Physical Activity and Self-Perception: Highlighting the role of movement and mindfulness in enhancing our authenticity and how they improve self-perception.
25:30 - The Need for Consistency: Emphasizing the importance of consistency and commitment in maintaining the changes we initiate.
30:00 - Taking Charge of Personal Growth: Encouraging small steps every day towards authentic self-expression and discussing the empowerment that comes from taking control of your personal growth.
Share your steps and progress towards authenticity on social media, and be sure to tag me @hdtransformations.

Monday Apr 29, 2024


Welcome to today's episode where we dive into the vital topic of sleep with renowned expert Annika, founder of Sleep Like a Boss.
Learn how Annika turned her battle with burnout and insomnia into a mission to help women master their sleep and reclaim their energy.
Timestamps & Key Points:
[0:00] - Meet Annika: From Burnout to Sleep Guru
Introduction to Annika, her background, and how personal experiences led her to specialize in sleep improvement for women.
Overview of her business, Sleep Like a Boss, and its objectives.
[3:15] - The Vital Role of Sleep in Women’s Health
Discussion on why sleep is crucial, especially for women juggling multiple roles.
Insights into the common yet overlooked reasons that disrupt sleep.
[8:07] - The Interplay Between Stress and Sleep
Exploring both external and internal stressors that can lead to poor sleep quality.
How to identify signs of stress that you might be missing and their impact on your sleep.
[10:37] - Blood Sugar and Sleep: The Hidden Connection
How blood sugar levels affect sleep patterns.
Practical tips for managing diet to prevent sleep disruption.
[16:11] - Addressing Insulin Resistance for Better Sleep
The link between diet, insulin resistance, and sleep issues.
Strategies to combat insulin resistance and improve sleep quality.
[18:31] - Power Naps and Productivity: Small Breaks for Big Gains
The benefits of power napping and how to effectively incorporate them into your routine.
Why normalizing naps could be a game-changer for your health and productivity.
[22:42] - Exercise, Sleep, and Circadian Rhythms
The benefits of regular, moderate exercise on sleep.
How morning sunlight exposure helps regulate your body’s clock and improve sleep.
[28:41] - Conclusion: Prioritizing Sleep for Optimal Health
Final thoughts on the importance of sleep and Annika’s tips for maintaining it.
How listeners can connect with Annika and explore her resources for better sleep.
Closing Thoughts:
Encouragement to take action on the tips discussed and prioritize your sleep for better health and well-being.
Reminder of where to find more information and support from Annika online.
Whether it’s adjusting your diet, incorporating naps, or managing stress better, each step is a move toward reclaiming the restorative sleep you deserve.
Introducing Annika Carroll, the mompreneur behind Sleep Like A Boss. With a mission to empower women to thrive in both their personal and professional lives, Annika specializes in helping women reclaim their sleep and prevent burnout. Drawing from her struggles with burnout and insomnia, she helps women fix their gut, hormones, and well-being to achieve great sleep, have tons of energy and, with that - sustainable success. Because sleep struggles and burnout aren't all in your head.
https://www.instagram.com/_annikacarroll/
 

Monday Apr 22, 2024

In today's episode, I explore the crucial moments that lead us to admit that rewarding ourselves and our children with food isn't sustainable. Join me as we discuss the journey from traditional rewards to achieving real, sustainable change with healthier alternatives.
Timestamps:
[00:00] - Introduction: The Moment of Realization   - Realizing that using food as a reward is ingrained in our culture and its implications for our health and lifestyle.
[01:11] - The Treat Trap: Navigating the Urge to Reward with Food   - Exploring how the habit of rewarding with food begins and why it's a common yet problematic response.
[02:27] - The Breaking Point: Recognizing When It's Time for Change   - Identifying the negative consequences of food rewards and the importance of shifting to non-food rewards.
[05:03] - Beyond Food: A Holistic Approach to Rewards   - Discussing alternatives to food rewards that promote healthier habits and contribute to overall well-being.
[06:26] - The Strategy for Success: Embracing Non-Food Rewards   - Offering practical advice on how to implement and benefit from non-food rewards, both personally and for children.
Key Takeaways:
- Understanding the signs that food rewards are not beneficial and the importance of finding alternatives.- The importance of expert guidance in achieving sustainable change in our reward habits.- Strategies for integrating healthy reward practices into family life.- How shifting from food to non-food rewards can transform your approach to celebrations and achievements.
Closing Thoughts:
- Recognizing that seeking healthier alternatives isn't a sign of weakness; it's a strategic move towards achieving your goals more effectively. Whether you're dealing with personal habits or family traditions, remember that there's a wealth of knowledge and support available to help you make the shift. It's time to embrace the journey with open arms and an open mind. If you'd like to discuss a path forward please reach out.

Monday Apr 15, 2024

Welcome to this enlightening conversation with Ashley Holmes, a holistic fertility coach who combines yoga, mindfulness, and personalized coaching to support women on their fertility journeys. Dive into the key insights from our discussion on how yoga and mindfulness can significantly impact fertility, offering a natural and balanced approach to conception.
Introduction- Ashley Holmes introduces her role as a holistic fertility coach and shares her personal journey from fertility struggles to discovering the integrative power of yoga and mindfulness.
Key Insights and Takeaways- Mind-Body-Spirit Connection: Learn how aligning these elements can create a fertile foundation, facilitating easier conception and overall well-being.- Stress and Fertility: Explore how chronic stress affects hormonal balance and fertility, and discover techniques to mitigate stress and enhance fertility prospects.- Yoga and Fertility: Ashley delves into how specific yoga practices like Yin yoga and Yoga Nidra can help open energy channels, support emotional healing, and prepare the body for pregnancy.- The Power of Mindful Eating: Understand the importance of mindfulness in eating habits, which can improve digestion and optimize nutrient absorption, crucial for hormonal balance and fertility.- Customized Coaching: Ashley emphasizes the personalized nature of her coaching, tailoring her approach to meet the unique needs of each individual.
Timestamps- [00:00:00] Introduction to Ashley Holmes and her holistic fertility coaching approach.- [00:03:25] Ashley's personal fertility story and the transformative role of yoga.- [00:07:15] The biological and emotional impacts of stress on fertility.- [00:12:40] Detailed explanation of Yin yoga, Yoga Nidra, and their benefits for fertility.- [00:18:55] Discussing the significance of mindful eating and its effects on health and fertility.- [00:24:30] The importance of customizing fertility coaching and how Ashley adapts her methods to individual needs.- [00:29:45] Q&A session with Ashley on common fertility issues and her holistic solutions.
Closing Thoughts- Embrace a holistic approach to fertility that integrates mind, body, and spirit. By reducing stress, practicing mindfulness, and aligning our energy, we can enhance our fertility naturally and healthily.
Connect with Ashley Holmes- To learn more about Ashley’s methods or to book a personalized session, visit her on the VIB l y platform for health and wellness.
Ashley Holmes is a Holistic Fertility Coach who supports women struggling with infertility to create a fertile foundation within. By bringing mind, body, and spirit into balance and alignment women are able to nourish themselves optimally to conceive with ease.
Website:https://holisticfertilitycoachinc.my.canva.site/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ashley_holmes3202/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ashley.holmes.3979Holistic Fertility Coach Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/271957647919481/?ref=share_group_linkHealth & Wellness Platform ViBLY:https://vibly.io/expert/ashleyjholmesYoga Nidra:https://vibly.io/services/yoga-nidra-meditation-ashleyjholmes
Thank you for tuning into this episode. Whether you're navigating fertility challenges or simply interested in a more balanced, holistic lifestyle, Ashley’s insights offer valuable guidance and hope. Join us next time as we continue to explore innovative approaches to health and well-being.

Wednesday Apr 10, 2024

Welcome to a refreshing take on achieving a healthier lifestyle, where we go beyond the conventional wisdom of squats, diets, and strict routines. Today, we dive into why the one-size-fits-all approach to fitness often falls short and explore the transformative power of a tailored healthy lifestyle strategy. Join me as I debunk myths, challenge the norms, and offer you a roadmap to a life where fitness meets joy and sustainability.
Timestamps:- 00:00: Introduction - Setting the stage for a new fitness philosophy- 02:15: The Limitations of Traditional Fitness Plans - Why Personal Training and nutrition guides alone don't cut it- 05:30: The Turning Point - How a personalized approach revolutionizes wellness- 08:45: The Role of Flexibility and Enjoyment in Your Fitness Journey- 12:00: Beyond Calories and Crunches - The importance of addressing stress and emotional well-being- 15:20: Your Personal Health GPS - Navigating life's roadblocks with a tailored strategy- 18:35: Real-life Success Stories - Testimonials from those who've embraced the journey- 21:50: Invitation to Transformation - How to join the movement towards a joyful and effective fitness lifestyle- 25:00: Closing Thoughts - Embracing the journey with resilience and joy
Key Takeaways:- A one-size-fits-all approach to fitness is often ineffective in the long run. Tailoring your strategy to fit your lifestyle is key.- Flexibility and enjoyment are crucial components of a sustainable fitness journey.- Addressing stress and emotional well-being is as important as diet and exercise in your health journey.- Viewing your fitness strategy as a personal GPS can help navigate through life's unpredictability.- Personal transformation is possible with the right guidance, mindset, and tailored approach.
Closing Thoughts:Today's discussion underscores the importance of stepping away from rigid fitness dogmas and moving towards a more personalized, flexible, and enjoyable health strategy. Remember, the journey towards a healthier you shouldn't be a chore or a series of checkboxes. It's about integrating wellness into your life in a way that's sustainable, effective, and most importantly, joyful. Here's to finding your unique path to fitness, filled with laughter, resilience, and a good dose of reality checks. Until next time, keep moving forward, but don't forget to enjoy the ride.

Monday Apr 01, 2024

We're diving deep into the truth behind weight loss in the digital age. Gone are the days of blindly following the newest diet trends popping up on your social media feed or investing in apps that promise the world but deliver little. Join me as I explore a more strategic, personalized approach to health and fitness that's not only effective but sustainable.
Episode Summary:
- [0:00] Weight Loss Methods and Their Effectiveness: I kick off the conversation by addressing the common pitfalls of seeking weight loss solutions through social media and the endless sea of fitness apps. The key takeaway? A one-size-fits-all method is seldom the answer to achieving your health goals.
- [2:11] Fitness and Nutrition Apps and Their Effectiveness:Delving into the world of fitness and nutrition apps, I discuss why these tools, despite their popularity, might not be the golden ticket to weight loss they're often made out to be. Instead, I suggest a more tailored, personal approach.
- [3:45] Wasting Time and Money on Unsuccessful Health and Fitness Efforts: Ever find yourself wondering where all the time, money, and effort have gone with little to no results to show for it? I address the importance of consistency over novelty when it comes to your health.
- [5:29] Using Technology to Improve Health and Wellness: Technology isn't the enemy, but how we use it can make or break our fitness journey. I share insights into navigating the vast resources available online and making them work for you, not against you.
- [7:26] Health and Wellness Spending and Effectiveness: In a revealing segment, I challenge you to consider the real cost of health and wellness in your life. How much have you spent on fleeting fitness fads, and what do you have to show for it?
Key Takeaways:
- Personalization is Key: Forget cookie-cutter plans. For lasting results, a customized approach to diet and exercise is essential.- Technology as a Tool, Not a Crutch: Use apps and online resources wisely to complement, not dictate, your fitness journey.- Invest in What Works: It's time to rethink where you're putting your money. Quality, professional guidance trumps quantity every time.- Consistency Over Novelty: Achieving your fitness goals is a marathon, not a sprint. Steady, focused effort wins the race.
Closing Thought:
It's easy to get lost in the endless scroll of Google searches and social media feeds, constantly searching for the next big thing in weight loss. But perhaps it's time to log off and tune in—to yourself, your body, and your needs. Consider this episode your wake-up call to stop googling and start growing into the healthiest version of yourself, with a strategy that's as unique as you are. 
Remember, it's not about having a plethora of resources at your fingertips but about finding the right ones that speak to you and your journey. And sometimes, the best investment you can make is in professional, personalized guidance that cuts through the noise and lays out a clear path to success.
Schedule a quick call with me to discuss what that path looks like for you. https://bit.ly/HDTstrategyplanning

Monday Mar 25, 2024

Today's episode delves into a crucial topic many of us wrestle with: reaching our breaking point and deciding to make a change. It's about that moment when you say "enough is enough" and commit to transforming your health and weight. If you've ever felt stuck on the diet roller coaster, or if financial stress and emotional exhaustion have held you back, this conversation is for you.
Timestamps & Key Insights:
0:00 – Reaching a Breaking Point for Weight Loss
The importance of hitting a breaking point to truly commit to change.The speaker shares their commitment to helping clients lose a minimum of 10 pounds a month, highlighting the necessity of mental commitment.
1:40 – Financial Stress and Emotional Exhaustion as Catalysts
Discussion on how financial stress and responsibilities can delay taking action on health goals.A call to reevaluate priorities, emphasizing health and self-care over financial constraints.
2:54 – Personal Journey to Taking Control
I share my personal transformation journey, from feeling stuck and unhappy to taking control of my health and wellness.
Insights into the importance of decision-making in initiating life changes.
5:35 – Prioritizing Self-care and Fitness
Encouragement to prioritize self-care and fitness despite budget limitations.A reflection on the true cost of neglecting one's health and the long-term benefits of investing in oneself.7:11 – The Importance of Prioritizing Health and Wellness
A motivational push to stop self-criticism and initiate positive health changes.The speaker emphasizes lasting growth, weight loss, and the support of loved ones in prioritizing health and wellness.
This episode is a powerful reminder that transformation begins with a decision. It's about saying "I'm done" with being unhappy with your health and "I'm ready" to take action. Whether it's losing weight, gaining muscle, or simply wanting to feel better about yourself, the journey starts with the belief that you deserve better. If you're at your breaking point and ready to make a change, let this be the moment you decide to take control of your health and happiness. Remember, it's not about drastic overnight changes, but about small, sustainable shifts that lead to lasting improvement. You're not alone in this journey, and it's never too late to start.
If today's discussion resonated with you, remember: you have the power to change. The decision is yours. If you're ready to take the first step, reach out. Let's get moving on this path to better health together.

Monday Mar 18, 2024

Hey there, my fellow 80s and 90s babies! This episode is specially crafted with you in mind. If you've started to notice that your body isn't quite responding like it used to a decade or so ago, don't fret—it's not about discipline or eating too much. Instead, it's all about *when* you eat. Yes, we're diving into the world of time-restricted eating and intermittent fasting, slicing through the mixed press to uncover how these methods can truly optimize our metabolism after we hit the 35 mark. So, let's break down the myths, learn why less is sometimes more, and how to properly fuel our bodies as we gracefully age.
Episode Highlights
- 0:00 - Intermittent Fasting and Metabolism for the 35+ Age Group: Unraveling the reality that after 35, weight loss isn't so much about discipline as it is about the timing and content of our meals. Discover how to adjust your eating patterns to reignite your metabolism.
- 1:58 - The Importance of Fasting for Body Repair and Sleep: Learn why giving your body a 12-hour break from eating can aid in self-repair, including a brain ""carwash"", and significantly enhance your sleep quality. Plus, a tip for young moms on setting the right sleep-eating patterns for their babies.
- 3:59 - Intermittent Fasting and Nutrition for Optimal Health: I'll share why eating vegetables first post-fast can help regulate blood sugar, prevent weight gain, and why the order in which you consume food matters.
- 7:11 - Personal Insights on Fasting: Sharing a personal anecdote to illustrate the mental shift that can occur with intermittent fasting and how it can impact our relationship with food.
- 8:38 - Meal Timing for Weight Loss and Overall Health: Guidelines on how to embark on 12-16 hour fasts daily for optimal health, and why extreme fasting isn't necessary. Tips on meal composition and the benefits of a post-dinner walk.
Key Takeaways
- Your body deserves a break. Aim for a minimum of 12 hours without eating to allow for digestion and self-repair.- Starting and ending your fasting with the right foods (fiber, protein, healthy fats) makes all the difference.- Movement post-meals can significantly improve how your body processes and uses the food you eat.
As we navigate the changes our bodies undergo with age, it's crucial to adapt our eating habits accordingly. The essence of our discussion today isn't about restriction but about mindfulness—understanding when to eat, what to eat, and giving our bodies the care they need to function optimally. Whether you're an 80s or 90s baby feeling the shift in your metabolism or simply someone curious about intermittent fasting, I hope this episode sheds light on how time-restricted eating can be a game-changer. Remember, it's not about eating less but eating right. Let's keep the conversation going—shoot me a message if you've found these tips helpful or if you're eager to dive deeper into the world of healthy eating.
Caught something that sparked your interest or have a game-changing experience with intermittent fasting to share? Your insights and stories are what make our community thrive. Don't hesitate to reach out, share your thoughts, or leave a review. Together, we're not just reminiscing about the good old days—we're making our best days even better.

Monday Mar 11, 2024

In today's episode, we explore the crucial moments that lead us to admit we can't do it all on our own and the incredible impact of reaching out for expert advice. Join us as we discuss the journey from DIY efforts to achieving real, sustainable change with the help of professionals.
Timestamps:
[00:00] - Introduction: The Moment of Realization[01:54] - The DIY Trap: Navigating the urge to solve problems on our own[04:52] - The Breaking Point: Recognizing when it's time for professional help[06:32] - Beyond Weight Loss: A holistic approach to sustainable lifestyle changes[10:22] - The Strategy for Success: Personalized guidance and the power of expert coachingKey Takeaways:
Understanding the signs that indicate it's time to seek helpThe importance of expert guidance in achieving sustainable changeStrategies for integrating healthy habits into family lifeHow personalized coaching can transform your approach to health and wellness
Seeking help isn't a sign of weakness; it's a strategic move towards achieving your goals more effectively. Whether you're struggling with weight loss, personal growth, or any other challenge, remember that there's a wealth of knowledge and support waiting for you. It's time to embrace the journey with open arms and an open mind.

Monday Mar 04, 2024

In this episode, I'm diving into the fascinating intersection of nutrition, sleep, and overall well-being. We'll explore the pivotal role micronutrients play in enhancing your sleep quality and how this, in turn, affects your energy levels and mood throughout the day. I'll shed light on the essential vitamins and minerals your body needs for optimal sleep, the challenges of obtaining these nutrients from our diet alone, and the undeniable importance of supplements in filling those gaps. It's time to arm yourself with the knowledge needed to make informed decisions about your diet and sleep habits for a healthier, more vibrant life. No mysteries, just clear, actionable insights.Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction to the Sleep-Nutrition Connection0:01 - The Essential Micronutrients for Quality Sleep2:45 - Magnesium: Your Sleep's Best Friend5:30 - The Critical Role of Iron and Zinc in Sleep Regulation9:00 - Vitamins B and D: From Energy to Restful Nights11:45 - Navigating the Supplement Space: What You Need to Know14:20 - Invitation to a Deep-Dive Workshop on Nutrition and SleepSubscribe for more no-nonsense advice on leveraging nutrition for better sleep and overall health. Don't forget to Like and Comment with your own experiences and tips!See my website for workshop details www.hdtransformations.com

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