You’re In Charge: Priorizing Self-Care Without Sacrifice with Heather Dumas
We’re here to help you prioritize self-care, and create a sustainable, kick-ass healthy lifestyle by reminding you that You’re In Charge. This is the podcast for all you badass women out there, expertly balancing your career and motherhood. It’s my mission to cut through the nonsense and give you some tough love so that you can take charge of your health and happiness. No fluff, no excuses, just real talk and real solutions for real change. Because you deserve to look and feel like the badass you are.
Episodes
Monday Mar 25, 2024
Monday Mar 25, 2024
Today's episode delves into a crucial topic many of us wrestle with: reaching our breaking point and deciding to make a change. It's about that moment when you say "enough is enough" and commit to transforming your health and weight. If you've ever felt stuck on the diet roller coaster, or if financial stress and emotional exhaustion have held you back, this conversation is for you.
Timestamps & Key Insights:
0:00 – Reaching a Breaking Point for Weight Loss
The importance of hitting a breaking point to truly commit to change.The speaker shares their commitment to helping clients lose a minimum of 10 pounds a month, highlighting the necessity of mental commitment.
1:40 – Financial Stress and Emotional Exhaustion as Catalysts
Discussion on how financial stress and responsibilities can delay taking action on health goals.A call to reevaluate priorities, emphasizing health and self-care over financial constraints.
2:54 – Personal Journey to Taking Control
I share my personal transformation journey, from feeling stuck and unhappy to taking control of my health and wellness.
Insights into the importance of decision-making in initiating life changes.
5:35 – Prioritizing Self-care and Fitness
Encouragement to prioritize self-care and fitness despite budget limitations.A reflection on the true cost of neglecting one's health and the long-term benefits of investing in oneself.7:11 – The Importance of Prioritizing Health and Wellness
A motivational push to stop self-criticism and initiate positive health changes.The speaker emphasizes lasting growth, weight loss, and the support of loved ones in prioritizing health and wellness.
This episode is a powerful reminder that transformation begins with a decision. It's about saying "I'm done" with being unhappy with your health and "I'm ready" to take action. Whether it's losing weight, gaining muscle, or simply wanting to feel better about yourself, the journey starts with the belief that you deserve better. If you're at your breaking point and ready to make a change, let this be the moment you decide to take control of your health and happiness. Remember, it's not about drastic overnight changes, but about small, sustainable shifts that lead to lasting improvement. You're not alone in this journey, and it's never too late to start.
If today's discussion resonated with you, remember: you have the power to change. The decision is yours. If you're ready to take the first step, reach out. Let's get moving on this path to better health together.
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Hey there, my fellow 80s and 90s babies! This episode is specially crafted with you in mind. If you've started to notice that your body isn't quite responding like it used to a decade or so ago, don't fret—it's not about discipline or eating too much. Instead, it's all about *when* you eat. Yes, we're diving into the world of time-restricted eating and intermittent fasting, slicing through the mixed press to uncover how these methods can truly optimize our metabolism after we hit the 35 mark. So, let's break down the myths, learn why less is sometimes more, and how to properly fuel our bodies as we gracefully age.
Episode Highlights
- 0:00 - Intermittent Fasting and Metabolism for the 35+ Age Group: Unraveling the reality that after 35, weight loss isn't so much about discipline as it is about the timing and content of our meals. Discover how to adjust your eating patterns to reignite your metabolism.
- 1:58 - The Importance of Fasting for Body Repair and Sleep: Learn why giving your body a 12-hour break from eating can aid in self-repair, including a brain ""carwash"", and significantly enhance your sleep quality. Plus, a tip for young moms on setting the right sleep-eating patterns for their babies.
- 3:59 - Intermittent Fasting and Nutrition for Optimal Health: I'll share why eating vegetables first post-fast can help regulate blood sugar, prevent weight gain, and why the order in which you consume food matters.
- 7:11 - Personal Insights on Fasting: Sharing a personal anecdote to illustrate the mental shift that can occur with intermittent fasting and how it can impact our relationship with food.
- 8:38 - Meal Timing for Weight Loss and Overall Health: Guidelines on how to embark on 12-16 hour fasts daily for optimal health, and why extreme fasting isn't necessary. Tips on meal composition and the benefits of a post-dinner walk.
Key Takeaways
- Your body deserves a break. Aim for a minimum of 12 hours without eating to allow for digestion and self-repair.- Starting and ending your fasting with the right foods (fiber, protein, healthy fats) makes all the difference.- Movement post-meals can significantly improve how your body processes and uses the food you eat.
As we navigate the changes our bodies undergo with age, it's crucial to adapt our eating habits accordingly. The essence of our discussion today isn't about restriction but about mindfulness—understanding when to eat, what to eat, and giving our bodies the care they need to function optimally. Whether you're an 80s or 90s baby feeling the shift in your metabolism or simply someone curious about intermittent fasting, I hope this episode sheds light on how time-restricted eating can be a game-changer. Remember, it's not about eating less but eating right. Let's keep the conversation going—shoot me a message if you've found these tips helpful or if you're eager to dive deeper into the world of healthy eating.
Caught something that sparked your interest or have a game-changing experience with intermittent fasting to share? Your insights and stories are what make our community thrive. Don't hesitate to reach out, share your thoughts, or leave a review. Together, we're not just reminiscing about the good old days—we're making our best days even better.
Monday Mar 11, 2024
Monday Mar 11, 2024
In today's episode, we explore the crucial moments that lead us to admit we can't do it all on our own and the incredible impact of reaching out for expert advice. Join us as we discuss the journey from DIY efforts to achieving real, sustainable change with the help of professionals.
Timestamps:
[00:00] - Introduction: The Moment of Realization[01:54] - The DIY Trap: Navigating the urge to solve problems on our own[04:52] - The Breaking Point: Recognizing when it's time for professional help[06:32] - Beyond Weight Loss: A holistic approach to sustainable lifestyle changes[10:22] - The Strategy for Success: Personalized guidance and the power of expert coachingKey Takeaways:
Understanding the signs that indicate it's time to seek helpThe importance of expert guidance in achieving sustainable changeStrategies for integrating healthy habits into family lifeHow personalized coaching can transform your approach to health and wellness
Seeking help isn't a sign of weakness; it's a strategic move towards achieving your goals more effectively. Whether you're struggling with weight loss, personal growth, or any other challenge, remember that there's a wealth of knowledge and support waiting for you. It's time to embrace the journey with open arms and an open mind.
Monday Mar 04, 2024
Monday Mar 04, 2024
In this episode, I'm diving into the fascinating intersection of nutrition, sleep, and overall well-being. We'll explore the pivotal role micronutrients play in enhancing your sleep quality and how this, in turn, affects your energy levels and mood throughout the day. I'll shed light on the essential vitamins and minerals your body needs for optimal sleep, the challenges of obtaining these nutrients from our diet alone, and the undeniable importance of supplements in filling those gaps. It's time to arm yourself with the knowledge needed to make informed decisions about your diet and sleep habits for a healthier, more vibrant life. No mysteries, just clear, actionable insights.Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction to the Sleep-Nutrition Connection0:01 - The Essential Micronutrients for Quality Sleep2:45 - Magnesium: Your Sleep's Best Friend5:30 - The Critical Role of Iron and Zinc in Sleep Regulation9:00 - Vitamins B and D: From Energy to Restful Nights11:45 - Navigating the Supplement Space: What You Need to Know14:20 - Invitation to a Deep-Dive Workshop on Nutrition and SleepSubscribe for more no-nonsense advice on leveraging nutrition for better sleep and overall health. Don't forget to Like and Comment with your own experiences and tips!See my website for workshop details www.hdtransformations.com
Monday Feb 26, 2024
Monday Feb 26, 2024
Welcome to today's episode, where we dive deep into the phrases that might be holding us back from achieving our true potential: "I'm fine" and "good enough." Especially when it comes to our sleep health, these statements are far more dangerous than we might think. Join me as we explore why settling for mediocrity isn't just detrimental to our waking hours but also to the quality of our sleep and overall well-being.Show Notes0:00 - 2:00: Introduction to Today's TopicOpening thoughts on the prevalence of "I'm fine" and "good enough" in our daily lives.Personal reflection on the impact of these phrases on my own life and health.
2:01 - 5:00: The Danger of "I'm Fine"Discussion on how "I'm fine" is a barrier to recognizing and addressing our true feelings and needs.Examples from personal experiences where "I'm fine" was a mask for discomfort or dissatisfaction.
5:01 - 10:00: Why "Good Enough" Isn't Good EnoughThe psychological and physical implications of settling for "good enough," especially regarding sleep and health.Personal anecdotes on the consequences of accepting mediocrity in diet, exercise, and sleep habits.
10:01 - 15:00: The Impact on Sleep HealthInsights into how the mentality of "I'm fine" and "good enough" directly affects our sleep quality.The importance of prioritizing sleep and the dangers of neglect due to complacency.
15:01 - 20:00: Breaking the CycleStrategies for overcoming the habit of minimizing our needs and feelings.Tips for recognizing when we're settling and how to demand more for ourselves.
20:01 - 25:00: Prioritizing Excellence in Everyday LifePractical advice for elevating standards in our health, work, and personal life.The significance of self-care and setting higher goals for ourselves.
25:01 - 30:00: Conclusion and Call to ActionSummarizing the key takeaways from today's discussion.Encouragement to challenge the status quo of "I'm fine" and "good enough" in our lives.
Closing ThoughtsReflection on the journey towards recognizing our worth and the importance of not settling in any aspect of our lives.A final note on the upcoming workshop focused on nutrition and sleep, emphasizing the interconnectedness of our eating habits and sleep quality.
Key Takeaways"I'm fine" and "good enough" are more than just phrases; they're indicators of how we value ourselves and our well-being.Settling for mediocrity can have significant impacts on our physical health, mental clarity, and overall happiness.Making small, intentional changes in how we approach our health and daily routines can lead to substantial improvements in our quality of life.
Prioritizing ourselves and our needs isn't selfish—it's necessary for leading a fulfilling and healthy life.
Thank you for joining me in this important conversation. Let's commit to leaving "I'm fine" and "good enough" behind, embracing a life where we strive for excellence in everything we do, especially when it comes to our sleep health. Remember, you deserve to feel fantastic, and it starts with breaking free from the hidden dangers of complacency.
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
Tuesday Feb 20, 2024
In today’s episode, I dive deep into the world of sleep—debunking common myths, sharing my personal experiences, and offering tips to help you achieve the restful night's sleep you've been dreaming of. From the misunderstood impact of the full moon to the debated necessity of napping for adults, I explore how these beliefs shape our sleep habits and what science actually says about getting quality rest.Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction to the episode's theme2:15 - Debunking the one-size-fits-all sleep myth5:40 - Uncovering the truth about naps: Not just for kids8:50 - The full moon effect: Does it really impact sleep?12:30 - Can you catch up on sleep? Busting the sleep debt myth16:45 - Practical tips for improving sleep quality and establishing a bedtime routine20:20 - How understanding your circadian rhythm can transform your sleep24:00 - Listener Q&A: Addressing real-world sleep challenges28:15 - Closing thoughts and a sneak peek at next week's episode
Key Points:The ideal amount of sleep varies from person to person, and understanding your body's needs is crucial.Short naps can significantly boost alertness and performance—NASA's studies on pilots and astronauts prove it.The full moon might affect your sleep less than you think, but it's still fascinating to consider its natural influences.Catching up on sleep over the weekend is a myth; consistency is key for optimal rest.Simple, actionable strategies for establishing a healthy sleep routine and understanding your circadian rhythm.Resources:Book recommendation: "Why We Sleep" by Matthew Walker, for a deep dive into the science of sleep and its impact on everything from our health to our daily performance.Visit my website for additional resources and support on achieving better health and habits. Closing Thoughts:Improving your sleep goes beyond debunking myths; it's about making informed, healthy choices that align with your body's natural rhythms. Whether you're adjusting your bedtime routine or rethinking your naptime skepticism, small changes can lead to significant improvements in your sleep quality and overall well-being. Join my upcoming workshop to take immediate action toward better sleep. Details on my website.
Monday Feb 12, 2024
Monday Feb 12, 2024
In today’s episode, we explore the common yet risky habit of relying on caffeine during the day and alcohol at night to get through our busy lives. This cycle, though seemingly effective, hides potential dangers to our health and well-being. Join us as we uncover the impact of this lifestyle and learn how to make healthier choices.Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction to the episode’s theme2:15 - The truth about caffeine: benefits and drawbacks5:40 - How alcohol becomes dinner: understanding the evening routine8:50 - The nutritional consequences of skipping meals12:30 - Practical tips for breaking the caffeine and alcohol cycle16:45 - The importance of meal planning and nutritious snacks20:20 - Strategies for managing stress without relying on substances24:00 - Listener Q&A: Real-world challenges and solutions28:15 - Closing thoughts and next week’s previewKey Points:The physiological effects of excessive caffeine and alcohol consumptionThe role of nutrition in maintaining energy and healthSimple, actionable strategies for meal planning and preparationThe importance of incorporating stress-reducing practices into your daily routineResources:Link to meal planner https://bit.ly/MPCheatBook recommendation: Goldie Hawn’s "10 Mindful Minutes" for stress management tipsOur website for additional resources and support www.hdtransformations.comClosing Thoughts:Making the shift from surviving to thriving involves more than just cutting out caffeine and alcohol; it’s about creating a balanced lifestyle that supports your physical and mental health. Start small, be consistent, and watch how these changes positively impact your life.
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Today, I'm sharing how to silence those metaphorical devils on our shoulders – the ones that fill our heads with excuses, tempting us away from our goals. Join us as we dissect the allure of excuses, unravel the fear factor, and provide practical strategies to triumph over these common obstacles.Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction to the episode's theme: Overcoming excuses for a balanced life.1:30 - The Concept of Excuses as Devils on Our Shoulders: How excuses hold us back.4:20 - Setting Bumpers Against Temptation: Practical strategies to avoid procrastination and prioritize self-care.7:15 - Unraveling the Fear Factor: Identifying and confronting fears that lead to excuses.10:00 - Personal Stories of Overcoming Fear: How facing fears can lead to personal growth and better work-life balance.13:30 - Confronting Excuses: Strategies to identify and challenge excuses that disrupt our balance.16:50 - Debunking the Myth of Expensive Healthy Living: Tips for maintaining a healthy lifestyle on a budget.20:30 - The Role of Coaching in Overcoming Excuses: Personal experiences and the value of finding the right coach.24:45 - Overcoming Quick-Fix Temptations: The importance of a steady, consistent approach to change.28:00 - Identifying Excuses and Fears: Introduction to a helpful quiz for self-assessment.31:15 - Conclusion: Summarizing the key takeaways and a call to action for listeners to take charge and create balance in their lives.Key Takeaways:Recognize Excuses as Obstacles: Understanding that excuses often stem from deeper fears or resistance to change.Strategies to Counter Procrastination: Practical tips to avoid falling into the trap of delaying self-care and personal goals.Facing Fears Head-On: How confronting our fears can pave the way for growth and a more balanced life.Cost-Effective Healthy Living: Debunking the myth that a healthy lifestyle has to be expensive.The Impact of Coaching: Sharing personal experiences to highlight the transformative power of coaching.The Myth of Quick Fixes: Emphasizing the importance of patience and consistency in achieving lasting change.Self-Assessment Tool: Take this short quiz to find out exactly what you need to do to defeat those shoulder demons! https://bit.ly/hdtauditThis episode serves as a reminder that the power to overcome excuses and achieve work-life balance lies within us. By facing our fears, challenging our excuses, and embracing consistency, we can silence those devils and stride confidently towards our goals. Remember, it's about taking small steps today for a more balanced tomorrow.Subscribe for more insights and strategies on achieving a balanced, fulfilling life. Share your thoughts and experiences with me on social media @hdtransformations.
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Monday Jan 29, 2024
In this episode, I'm tackling the tough topic of weight loss. Join me as I break down the truths about weight loss drugs like Ozempic and their drawbacks, and why taking control of your weight, stress, and diet is crucial. I'll share my insights on the importance of understanding your body's needs, the deceptions in the weight loss industry, and the power of sustainable lifestyle changes. It's time to empower yourself with knowledge and commit to a healthier lifestyle for long-term success. No gimmicks, just real, lasting results.Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction to Smart Weight Management0:01 - The Real Deal on Weight Loss Drugs3:51 - Mastering Your Metabolism and Muscle Retention8:08 - Uncovering Health Industry Deceptions12:02 - Sustainable Lifestyle Changes for Long-term Wellness15:19 - The Importance of Self-Care in Weight LossSubscribe for more straightforward, effective health and wellness tips. Don't forget to Like and Comment with your experiences and thoughts!#WeightLoss #HealthJourney #NoGimmicks #RealResults #Wellness
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Today I'm taking you on a walk.Initially, I was a skeptic, heavily invested in high-intensity workouts. However, my experience over the past six months has completely transformed my views on the effectiveness and benefits of walking.Timestamps & Key Points00:00:00 - Introduction and Personal BackstoryI open up about my initial skepticism regarding walking as a legitimate form of exercise.How my perspective shifted from mocking walkers to embracing and enjoying walking myself.00:01:38 - Discovering the Benefits of Unplugged WalkingI discuss the advantages of walking without distractions like headphones.Sharing my personal experience of how regular walking alleviated my chronic hip pain.00:02:47 - Eye Health and Mental Clarity Through WalkingExploring how walking has improved my eye health and contributed to mental clarity.Drawing parallels between the mind's background processing during walks and a computer's multitasking.00:04:39 - Impact on Physical Health and Circadian RhythmI talk about how walking in the morning helps reset the circadian rhythm and enhances sleep quality.Explaining how walking aids in efficient glucose metabolism and energy management.00:06:23 - The Psychological Benefits of Walking in NatureReflecting on my personal experiences and scientific insights about walking in natural environments.The psychological upliftment and stress reduction I've felt from regular walks in nature.00:10:00 - Concluding Thoughts and a Personal ChallengeSummarizing the profound changes walking has brought into my life.I challenge my listeners to a two-week walking experiment and invite them to share their experiences.Closing ThoughtsTo close, I want to emphasize how walking, a simple yet powerful activity, has been a game-changer for my physical and mental health. Whether you're looking to enhance your fitness routine or seeking a gentle yet effective way to boost your well-being, I highly recommend giving walking a try.Resources & LinksVisit www.hdtransformations.com for more health and wellness tips.Connect with MeJoin me on social media using @hdtransformations and share your walking journey.Follow me on for daily inspiration and updates.
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