You’re In Charge: Priorizing Self-Care Without Sacrifice with Heather Dumas
We’re here to help you prioritize self-care, and create a sustainable, kick-ass healthy lifestyle by reminding you that You’re In Charge. This is the podcast for all you badass women out there, expertly balancing your career and motherhood. It’s my mission to cut through the nonsense and give you some tough love so that you can take charge of your health and happiness. No fluff, no excuses, just real talk and real solutions for real change. Because you deserve to look and feel like the badass you are.
Episodes
Monday Jan 15, 2024
Monday Jan 15, 2024
In this bonus episode from my most recent Self-Care Without Sacrifice Audio Experience, epI'll take you on a journey through my own experiences of navigating the often-overlooked signs of imbalance. This isn't just a story; it's a revelation of the hidden battles many of us face in silence.
I'll share the transformative moments and strategies that led me from feeling disconnected and overwhelmed to a place of empowerment and harmony. You'll learn how to tune into your body's whispers before they become screams, and how to harmonize your lifestyle with your body's needs. This is about breaking free from the silent struggle and embracing a life where your health and well-being are in sync with your ambitions and dreams.
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Join me as I unveil the tools and mindset shifts that can help you reclaim control over your body and mind, turning what once felt like a silent struggle into a powerful story of triumph and self-discovery.
Monday Jan 08, 2024
Monday Jan 08, 2024
Today, we're addressing a critical issue: the cycle of unhealthy eating habits, particularly the pattern of bingeing and starving. This episode offers valuable insights into why this cycle is harmful and how to adopt healthier eating practices for lasting well-being.Timestamps and Key Points0:01 - Unhealthy Eating Patterns and Their Effects on Hunger SignalsDiscussion on the cycle of bingeing and starving.How this pattern disrupts hunger signals and leads to food obsessions.0:53 - How Food Affects Hormones and Energy LevelsThe importance of eating the right amount of calories for hormonal balance and steady energy levels.Impact of balanced diet on cravings and mental well-being.2:40 - Unhealthy Eating Habits and Their ConsequencesUrging women to avoid starvation diets, as they lead to weight gain.The physiological effects of starvation on body fat and muscle.3:45 - The Importance of Proper Eating Habits for Body Fat LossExplaining why starving and bingeing prevent effective fat burning.The role of consistent, healthy eating in achieving a toned physique.5:24 - Healthy Weight Loss and Nutrition StrategiesIntroduction to reverse dieting: gradually adding high-quality calories.Tips for resetting metabolism and lifestyle for sustainable weight loss and energy boost.Closing ThoughtsThis episode emphasizes the need to shift our perspective on food. Rather than viewing it as an enemy, we should see it as essential fuel for our bodies. Breaking free from unhealthy eating cycles is vital for both physical and mental health. If you're struggling with these issues, please reach out.Resources and LinksFor personalized advice, schedule a Personal Strategy Planning Session https://bit.ly/HDTstrategyplanningAccess my previous audio event on hormones and nutrition here. https://learnwith.hdtransformations.com/register-summit05-secretExplore my program 'Revive' for a comprehensive approach to resetting your metabolism and lifestyle. www.hdtransformations.com/REVIVEHave questions or need guidance? Reach out. Follow me on social media for more health tips and updates.
Tuesday Jan 02, 2024
Tuesday Jan 02, 2024
In this episode, we discuss the common notion of waiting for the "right time" to make health changes, such as after the holidays or summer break. Our focus today is on why it's crucial to start now and how small, manageable changes can lead to significant improvements in health and wellness.Timestamps:00:00:45 – Overcoming the mindset of waiting for the perfect time00:02:10 – The impact of small, daily changes00:04:35 – Strategies for avoiding postponement and excuses00:06:50 – Simple switches for a healthier lifestyle00:09:20 – Building positive habits step-by-step00:12:00 – Managing holiday temptations and stress00:14:30 – Incorporating healthy choices into festive traditions00:16:45 – Embracing celebration while maintaining balance00:19:20 – Stress management techniques for busy schedules00:21:50 – The power of incremental improvements in health and wellbeingKey Points:Waiting Can Be Counterproductive: Many people plan to start making health changes after a specific time, but this often leads to postponement and additional challenges.Small Changes Matter: Integrating small, manageable tweaks into your daily routine can have a significant impact over time.Build Habits Gradually: Starting with easy switches, like choosing sparkling water over soda, can set the foundation for more substantial changes.Navigating Festive Temptations: Simple strategies like not going to parties hungry and giving yourself time to decompress can help manage holiday stress and overindulgence.Embrace Celebrations Responsibly: It's okay to indulge occasionally, like on Christmas, but it's important to return to healthier habits immediately afterward.Closing Thoughts:Remember, the best time to start making positive changes is now. Small steps can lead to big results, and you have the power to make a difference in your own life. Embrace the journey and celebrate your progress, not just during the holiday season but all year round.Additional Resources:JoJo's Chocolate & other helpful stuff https://bit.ly/HDTlinksHealthy Lifestyle Jumpstart https://bit.ly/hdtjumpstart
Wednesday Dec 27, 2023
Wednesday Dec 27, 2023
As this episode comes to a close, I encourage listeners to remember that the holiday season doesn't have to derail health goals. Embrace this time with mindfulness and make small changes that lead to a healthier, happier you. Happy holidays, and here's to continuing our health journey!
Sunday Dec 17, 2023
Sunday Dec 17, 2023
In this episode, we explore the often misunderstood topic of food addiction. Is it just a casual expression for our love of snacks, or is there a deeper, more serious aspect to it? Join me as I share my personal experiences and insights, examining the fine line between being a food enthusiast and a food addict, and exploring the steps we can take to manage this challenging relationship with food.Timestamps:0:00 - Understanding Food Addiction: More Than Just a Sweet ToothDiscussing the reality of food addiction and the importance of acknowledging it beyond casual jokes about sweets.2:12 - Personal Reflections: Foodie or Food Addict?Sharing personal experiences in the food industry and the journey of self-reflection to understand the difference between appreciating food and being addicted to it.4:45 - The Definition of Addiction Applied to FoodLooking into the scientific definition of addiction and how it relates specifically to food, especially snacks and sugary treats.6:27 - Media's Role and Processed Foods' Neurological EffectsCritiquing how media advertising influences our food choices and discussing the similarities between the neurobiological effects of processed foods and drugs.8:26 - Food Addiction: A Statistical and Health PerspectiveExploring statistics related to food addiction, especially in relation to obesity, and discussing the interconnectedness of these issues.11:02 - Emotional Eating: The Psychological AngleDelving into the emotional and psychological aspects of food addiction, including triggers and emotional responses related to eating.13:54 - Overcoming Food Addiction with Self-Control and Behavior ChangeDiscussing the possibility of overcoming food addiction through behavioral change and self-control, challenging the notion of obesity as a disease.16:18 - Meditation: A Tool for Enhancing Self-Control and WillpowerSharing insights on how meditation can help increase self-control and willpower, with personal anecdotes and tips for practice.18:31 - Changing Reward-Based Eating HabitsAddressing the habit of rewarding ourselves with food, offering alternatives and strategies for breaking this cycle.20:45 - Identifying and Managing Food TriggersProviding advice on recognizing and managing personal triggers related to food addiction.22:58 - Conclusion: Taking Charge of Your Food ChoicesWrapping up with final thoughts on the importance of understanding food addiction and an invitation for continued conversation and support.
Summary:Exploring the concept of food addiction and differentiating it from a simple love of food.Personal reflections on the journey from being a food enthusiast to recognizing potential food addiction.Discussing the neurobiological effects of processed foods and the role of media in shaping our eating habits.Emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, meditation, and changing reward-based eating behaviors in managing food addiction.Encouraging listeners to take control of their food choices and consider the deeper implications of their eating habits.
Monday Dec 11, 2023
Monday Dec 11, 2023
In this episode, we take a deep dive into the concept of accountability in health and fitness. Is it really the key to success, or is there more to the story? Join me as we explore the reality behind accountability and the power of self-honesty in making sustainable lifestyle changes.Timestamps:0:00 - The Misconceptions of Accountability and Personal ResponsibilityDebunking the myth that accountability is the key to success, and highlighting the importance of calling out one's own actions.1:04 - Why Tracking Numbers is Vital for a Healthy LifestyleDiscussing the significance of tracking metrics like calories and macros to understand your body and craft a successful, sustainable, and enjoyable health strategy.4:26 - The Impact of Mindless Food Choices on Daily LifeExploring how making unconscious food decisions leads to issues like exhaustion, weight gain, and brain fog.5:56 - The Importance of Making Changes and Tracking ProgressEncouraging honesty in tracking dietary habits to achieve health goals and acknowledging that there's never a perfect time for change.9:35 - The Role of Weight Loss and Self-Improvement in HealthOffering guidance on losing weight and improving health through strategic calorie counting and lifestyle modifications.Summary:Challenging the traditional view of accountability and advocating for self-responsibility.Emphasizing the role of tracking in creating a healthy lifestyle.Addressing the consequences of mindless eating and decision-making.Highlighting the importance of being honest with oneself to facilitate change.Discussing the continuous journey of self-improvement and health optimization.
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Monday Dec 04, 2023
Show Notes:
Welcome to our latest episode, where we dive deep into the intricate balance of knowing when to walk away and when to persevere through life's challenges. Inspired by a moment of epiphany in the sauna, this episode explores the parallels between physical discomfort and the emotional struggles we face in various aspects of life.
Key Highlights:
The Sauna Metaphor: How a simple sauna experience can reflect our life's decisions – from relationships to personal well-being.
Recognizing the Signs: Understanding when discomfort turns harmful, be it in a job, friendship, or any life situation.
The Emotional Challenge: Addressing why it's often harder to acknowledge and act upon emotional distress compared to physical pain.
Financial vs. Personal Well-being: A critical look at balancing financial gains with mental and physical health.
The Role of Physical Discomfort: How pushing our physical limits can teach resilience and adaptability in other life areas.
The Power of Change: Emphasizing the importance of embracing change for personal growth, even when it's uncomfortable.
A Call to Action: Encouraging listeners to self-reflect and make necessary changes for a happier, healthier life.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with the dilemma of enduring hardship versus taking the leap towards change. Tune in as we offer insights and advice on making the tough decisions that lead to true happiness and fulfillment. Join us, and let's embark on this journey of self-discovery together.
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Monday Nov 20, 2023
Monday Nov 20, 2023
In today's episode, I take you on a heartfelt exploration of gratitude—not the kind you scribble down mechanically, but the kind that transforms.
0:00 – The Irony of Seasonal Stress: I kick things off with a paradox of the holiday season: a time earmarked for gratitude often marred by stress. I pose a provocative question: Can true gratitude and high stress coexist?
1:20 – Gratitude vs. Thankfulness: Ever wondered if saying 'thanks' is enough? I dissect the distinction between being thankful for the small gestures and cultivating a deeper sense of gratitude that can literally change your body's chemistry.
2:58 – A Gratitude Challenge: It's not just about feeling good. I throw down the gauntlet, challenging you to a daily gratitude practice with the promise of profound shifts in stress levels and overall health.
4:23 – The Science of Gratitude: We delve into the nitty-gritty of how gratitude can shift us from a state of fight-or-flight to one of rest and digest, detailing the surprising benefits that ripple through our lives.
6:20 – Holiday Happiness Hack: As the holidays loom, I urge you to pivot from stress to a state of gratitude and joy. It's a call to arms—or perhaps a call to hearts—for a happier, healthier holiday season.
Your Morning Game-Changer: I'm sharing a tool that's been a game-changer for many: the perfect morning routine, featuring gratitude practice as its cornerstone. It's an invitation to transform your mornings, your stress levels, and your life.
As we wrap up, remember: this holiday season, don't just pass the gravy—pass around the gratitude. It might just be the stress-busting side dish you didn't know you needed.
Thank you for tuning in, and may your Thanksgiving be filled with genuine moments of gratitude. Until next time, keep finding those moments that flip the switch to 'chill mode' and watch your world change, one deep breath at a time.
Resources:
Mel Robbin's Podcast Episode
Perfect Morning Routine
Monday Nov 13, 2023
Monday Nov 13, 2023
The allure of quick-fix weight loss shots and why they're not the magic bullet they're cracked up to be.
Key Points:
The Illusion of Quick Fixes (0:00)
The psychology behind wanting instant results and why hard work is more rewarding in the long run.
The Side Effects They Don't Advertise (1:54)
A deep dive into the negative impacts of popular weight loss shots, from messing with your thyroid to damaging your muscle mass and bone density.
The Appetite Suppressant Trap (5:18)
How these shots manipulate your hunger hormones and why that's not as great as it sounds.
The Whole Foods Philosophy (9:45)
The importance of consuming single-ingredient foods like potatoes, broccoli, and chicken to avoid insulin resistance and weight gain.
Why Sleep is Your Secret Weapon
How lack of sleep messes with your body's repair and cleansing process, leading to weight gain.
The Road to Metabolic Flexibility
Why you should ease into reducing carbs and increasing fasting periods instead of diving headfirst into a ketogenic diet.
The Muscle Matters
The role of muscle in metabolism and why lifting heavy weights should be part of your routine.
Dopamine: The Double-Edged Sword
How dopamine affects your eating habits and why you should aim for a balanced intake.
Digestive System: The Unsung Hero
Why constantly eating can lead to an overworked digestive system and how to avoid it.
Supplements: The Safer Bet (14:48)
Consider supplements like berberine and trim fit as alternatives to regulate blood sugar and insulin for weight loss.
Resources:
Metabolic Reset
Healthy Lifestyle Jumpstart
Trim Fit Supplement by ShellyJo
If you're tempted by the siren call of quick-fix weight loss shots, hit pause. Reach out for a more sustainable, healthier approach. DM me with "Jumpstart" or "Help," and let's get you on the right track.
Monday Nov 06, 2023
Monday Nov 06, 2023
In today's episode, we're jumping off of the emotional rollercoaster that is your fitness journey. Feel like you're on a treadmill to nowhere? You're in good company. But guess what? That frustration you're wrestling with? It's not your enemy; it's your fuel.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Frustration with Fitness Journey and ProgressWe start by acknowledging the universal truth: the frustration of feeling stuck in your fitness journey is a normal part of the process.
2:09 - Body Development and Frustration with AgingWelcome to your 30s, the decade where your body starts playing hard to get. We discuss how this can actually be a catalyst for positive lifestyle changes.
5:49 - Daily Routine and Fitness HabitsFrom walking to meditation and meal prep, we explore the daily rituals that keep you sane. And yes, flexibility is key.
7:21 - Creating Daily Habits for Self-ImprovementLet's talk habit stacking. How to make self-care activities like meditation, exercise, and meal prep non-negotiables in your life.
10:03 - Consistency and Progress in Personal GrowthThe 90-day mark: not the finish line, but a solid indicator of your commitment. We discuss why consistency is your best friend and how the daily grind actually makes you stronger.
Key Takeaways:
Frustration is a sign you're engaged, not a reason to quit.
Your body's changes as you age can be a motivator, not a deterrent.
Consistency and flexibility in your daily routine are not mutually exclusive.
Habit stacking can be a game-changer in your personal growth journey.
If you've been grinding for 90 days with no results, it's time to reassess and possibly seek professional guidance.
Resources Mentioned:
"Atomic Habits" by James Clear: A book you'll want on your shelf if you're serious about habit stacking and personal growth.
Closing Thoughts:
You're not aimlessly grinding away; you're laying the bricks for a healthier, happier you. So, if you're committed to the long game, this episode is your playbook. And if you're stuck, don't wing it. Seek help, whether it's from me or another qualified coach. Because in the grind, that's where the transformation happens.
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